Habiba has earned her community’s support
Habiba used persuasion and example to convince family and neighbours that it is good for women to be active in the community.
It takes courage for women in many areas of the world to challenge the expectations and demands of their family and friends, in order to pursue their own dreams. But that is what Habiba Akter Lipy has done, and it has transformed lives.
A traditional start
Habiba, 27, lives with her husband Md. Mridul Sheikh, a farmer, in Amirpur near Khulna, Bangladesh. She married at 14 and had to leave school, and then had two children. With her family and household responsibilities she thought she would never have an opportunity to fulfil her dream – to do something on her own.
A door opens
Habiba was looking for an opportunity which would not harm her family situation, and it came through an Empower Youth for Work (EYW) program. She received three days of ‘soft skills’ training in 2017, which gave her the inner strength and confidence to try something of her own. She decided to learn the tailoring trade and, after a month’s training, she set up her own business at home.
Habiba was working for herself as she’d wished, but it wasn’t all she had hoped for. She could not concentrate properly on her work because of all the other demands on her time – a problem familiar to anyone who has tried to juggle work and home life – and she could not earn enough by sitting at home.
Habiba had also become a member of Union Apex Body and District Youth Advisory Board, attending meetings and coordinating youth-led activities. There was never any food at the events, so this enterprising young woman decided to supply it! The move displeased her in-laws and husband because, socially and culturally, it was not acceptable for a woman to run a business out in the marketplace.
But Habiba persisted and, with the help of other group members, she somehow persuaded her family that it was a good idea. So, in July 2018, she spent five days training in entrepreneurship skills and, soon after, she started preparing meals and snacks at home, delivering them to meetings and schools. A few months later – in May this year – she set up a hotel, with 20,000 BDT support from an EYW program.
The sky’s the limit
Now Habiba is a well-known restaurant owner in her community. And, after attending a couple of spouse meetings her husband was persuaded to support her enterprise. "I never imagined that my husband and children would help me that much to chase my dream,” Habiba says with pride. She earns about 20,000 BDT per month from the hotel, but continues to make food parcels to deliver to customers, and sews ladies garments especially during festival times. Although Habiba is very happy with her current situation, she still wants better! She wants to expand her food business with more space, a bigger menu, more staff and a better location. For this she needs more time and money, and is saving to fulfil her dreams.
Showing the way
Habiba believes that other women and girls will be inspired by seeing her at work. Women do not usually work in the hotel business, but she is hoping to overcome tradition and employ some in her hotel. She also knows that it is important to change things from above, and intends to work with the EYW program to lobby local government to make it easier to get trade licenses, financial support (loans), skills development training, and to open bank accounts. "I want to expand my business and also want to create work opportunities for at least 10 youths from my peer group," she says. This way, others can reach their dreams.
Habiba‘s story is part of the multiyear campaign, kicked off on International Youth Day 2019 by the Empower Youth for Work program and the Work in Progress! alliance. The campaign aims to support the national influencing work of the respective programs by joining forces with local role models. The ripples of #Iwasthere are spreading out around the world and these stories are proof that change can happen anywhere – we hope they will inspire you, too, to become an active citizen.
Why these stories?
There are more young people today than ever before in the history of the world; 1.8 billion people between the ages of 10 and 24 worldwide, and 90% of them live in low-income countries. . Harnessing the energy and strength of young women and men to become active citizens is core to Oxfam's goal of transformational change.
With their energy, skills and creativity, young people have the potential to be the driving force for social change, strong economies and vibrant democracies.
Oxfam is working jointly with youth to challenge barriers that prevent them from
Enjoying their rights
Participating fully in society
Being an effective voice in decision-making processes
How youthful dreams become reality.
These stories are proof that change can happen anywhere -
to inspire you to become an active citizen.
- The Netherlands
“Development is more than just economy or infrastructure, it’s all about humans.”
“As activists, we have to be patient. Without patience we can’t do anything, we just struggle.”
Jesse van Schaik
“I hope other people think ‘if she can do it, then I can do it, and then it won’t be that hard.’”
“Youths must work every day to be the change they want to see.”
“The only thing that I cannot do, is child bearing and breast feeding. This is not naturally gifted to men!”
“My goal was to capture the essence of the vital advocacy work that goes on within powerful institutions. But in a light and approachable way.”
“We are young, we are prepared. We have many things to do.”
“The biggest challenge wasn’t informing them about modern farming techniques but persuading them to abandon outdated methods”
“Work is never defined for men and women, it is us who creates this differentiation. There are lots of people in rural areas who are not getting enough medical support, I want to do something more for their advancement by engaging the youth of our community.”
“Fear is not part of my life. I conquer the fear itself.”
“I did not have any computer knowledge prior to this time; I only used computers for watching movies!”
“We should create an environment where people can support one another and raise local funds together to buy clothes and food for poor children and mothers.”
“Work ethics and character are equally important as you cannot earn a living out of talent alone.”
“I believe young women have the capacity to change their lives if they are provided with a safe environment and support from their family, community, and government.”
“Once we overcame our initial hurdles, we felt confident about managing more events, and soon established a good reputation in the city.”
“Even if a person supports you and teaches you how to do a thing, without passion on your part, it’s a ‘NO’!”
“Without a book on my lap every day, I don’t know where I would have reached today. One day I will realize my dream of bringing all Sahil people into the library.”
Habiba believes that other women and girls will be inspired by seeing her at work.
“Seeing my success, many people are now convinced it’s OK to assist women.”
“We aim, one day, to scale up our start-up to a national level”
He started working from home to save money, providing computer support to the community, especially women.
“The beauty parlour industry is exploitative, and because women workers lack awareness about their rights, they pose little to no resistance to unfair work policies.”
“Poetry is art and expression, and has been in my blood since my childhood. If you want people to develop their country, young people are the starting point – they have the drive and stamina to pioneer changes”
To ensure the continued success of her business, she keeps up with the latest fashion trends online, adjusting them for the cultural and religious tastes of her clients.